Football Association Bans Certain Terms to Promote Inclusivity in 2025

In a move aimed at fostering a more inclusive environment, football authorities have issued new guidelines discouraging the use of traditional terminology deemed offensive or exclusionary. The Berks and Bucks Football Association has published a detailed 26-page language guide urging players, referees, coaches, and supporters to adopt more respectful language during matches and communications.

The guidelines specify replacing common phrases such as “come on lads,” “linesman,” and “mother” with more neutral alternatives like “come on team,” “assistant referee,” and “parents/carer.” For instance, referring to a group as “guys” is now discouraged; instead, “everyone” is preferred. Similarly, “wife” should be substituted with “partner,” and “kids” with “family.” The aim is to create a welcoming atmosphere for everyone involved in the game.

In addition to language changes, the guide encourages individuals to apologize if they unintentionally use offensive terms, emphasizing accountability and learning. The association emphasizes that respectful communication helps players, officials, and volunteers feel valued and included regardless of their background.

Footballers are advised to avoid terms like 'come on lads'

Footballers are encouraged to replace phrases like “come on lads” with more inclusive language

The guide also recommends that referees ask for pronouns and that individuals avoid sarcasm and age-related comments such as “you’re just a kid.” While some praise the effort to promote respect, critics argue that these restrictions may be excessive, with some social media comments labeling the move as overreach.

Some conservative figures have voiced concerns, suggesting that the language rules could be a form of overreach or tyranny. Meanwhile, the association underscores that addressing issues like racist abuse—highlighted by past incidents involving national team players—remains crucial. The guide’s broader goal is to ensure football remains a sport for everyone, fostering community and respect through mindful communication.

Referring to someone as 'wife' instead of 'partner'

Using terms like ‘wife’ instead of ‘partner’ can lead to issues under the new guidelines

Participants are encouraged to report inappropriate language to club officials or the local football association, with the goal of creating a safe and inclusive environment across grassroots clubs. Supporters believe such measures are vital for building respectful communities through sport.