My Fabulous Friendship with Imelda Marcos, the Philippines’ First Lady
A Closer Look at the Life of Imelda Marcos
Ferdinand “Bongbong” Marcos Jr., the President of the Philippines, recently met with influential figures, reflecting the long-standing connections of his family. My familiarity with the Marcos family extends back decades. In 1971, I had the chance to meet Imelda Marcos, then the first lady of the Philippines, during a grand celebration marking Persepolis’s 2,500th birthday, attended by 60 world leaders. As assistant to the Miss Universe pageant, I helped host the event in Manila, where Imelda built an entire new theater to accommodate it.
Later, I visited her private townhouse in New York, where she enjoyed playing with pearls from a trunk of jewelry. She often hosted lively parties, singing her favorite tunes into the early hours with guests like George Hamilton and Van Cliburn. Hotelier Leona Helmsley once inquired about Imelda’s wealth and remarked she had more. These stories are part of my personal experiences with her, shared in a documentary.
In her later years, Imelda faced exile in Hawaii amid allegations and legal challenges. Despite hardships, she remained resilient. I recall her telling me that after initial tears, she found comfort gardening — a form of therapy. She told me she intended to repay supporters who donated, some giving just a dollar, but accumulating to significant sums. Her legal bills soared to over half a million dollars monthly, and she was barred from earning money or traveling, depending heavily on her son Bongbong’s future prospects.

Her journey included moments of generosity and hardship. She recounts visits from friends like Doris Duke, who provided bail money during a difficult time. Recently, Imelda has been living in Manila and is proud of her son’s achievements, expressing happiness for his success.